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PSYCHOLOGY
Live
More and Simpler
Does going further, climbing higher, or being faster
really add to our lives?
by Sulynn
Choong
JAN
2012 | It’s
a new year. Almost automatically we wish each other a happy one
– some wishes more earnestly than others. A new beginning,
a fresh start. Like an eraser wiping a whiteboard clean so that
we can write anew on it. What will you do differently this year?
Do you plan to go further, higher or faster? Would you consider
a plan to live more and simpler? Did you read that last question
again? Yes, live more and simpler.
How
is that possible? Living more seems to mean doing more. How can
that be simpler?
Life
has become quite complex with the proliferation of time-saving gadgets
and equipment around us. My pet rant is about computer and technology
which has dominated my life the last 30 years. The computer was
aggressively marketed then as a machine to save time and paper.
Nonsense, it is doing neither. These days, computers have invaded
our workplace, our home, and every other place in between. They
have become indispensable to most of us.
Over the last two decades, computers have become increasingly multi-functionally
versatile and powerful while shrinking in size and becoming highly
portable. In the last decade, smartphones have provided instant
communications through voice, text and video plus spoilt us with
entertainment options – without any need for us to do more
than press some buttons.
We
are on call 24/7. People have the audacity to ask ‘why was
your phone not on?’ I am sure I am not the only one to be
so afflicted. Documents are sent to me for perusal/ consideration/
review in the middle of nowhere any time of day. Meetings are fixed
over calendars in my phone simply by clicking Accept/Maybe/Decline.
WhatsApp, Viber, Line, Skype, Facetime, Microsoft exchange, and
the prevalence of social networking media from Twitter to New York
Times to Harpers magazines all make volumes of information instantly
available and literally at our fingertips. Yes even HR Matters went
‘e-‘.
So cool! Herein lies the fallacy. Technology has saved us time looking
for information but put so much information in our hands that takes
us so much time to read.
Yes
we have a choice. Barry Schwartz in his book, The Paradox of
Choice, separated the world into satisficers and maximisers.
Satisficers have an idea of what they want, get something that matches
what they wanted and it is done. Maximisers take their time in looking
for and reviewing what’s available, alternatives and perhaps
even enhancements (y’know just in case) and then quite reluctantly
have to make a choice due to financial, time or other constraints.
Technology saves time for the satisficer and creates a nightmarish
info overload and choice conundrum for the maximisers.
We have accepted that being absent
present is good enough. |
So
let’s put these random thoughts into context. For the maximisers
among us, what if we considered doing the following in the next
12months:
• Step 1. Switch your gadgets off save but
one at a time.
• Step 2. Turn all Apps and programmes off
save but one at a time.
• Step 3. Finish what you are doing or plan
to do with or without technology aid.
• Step 4. When done with Step 3, select what
to do next and repeat Steps 1 to 3.
The
benefits of doing so include:
• We will have better focus and the quality of whatever
we are doing improves – a conversation, an action,
a thought, the product of any other mental activity. Our brains
are not working at their optimal when we are multitasking. The brain
can only focus on one thing at a time. When we multitask, it does
rapid switching back and forth between or among the various things
we are doing at the same time. Hence we are short-changing each
transaction, ourselves and others. We make fewer mistakes and actually
do things faster if we multitask less.
• We will be healthier. When we multitask,
we require heightened alertness. This causes stress in our bodies.
Brief biology lesson: Under stress, the brain signals release of
adrenalin and cortisol which boost blood sugar and oxygen levels
(enough to keep you running for a mile), push more blood to the
brain hence increasing alertness.
In the short term, stress suppresses our immune system, slows down
the body’s rate of repair, slows down metabolism, and robs
the body of vital nutrients. In the medium term, we start experiencing
mood swings, bouts of chronic fatigue and anxiety. Prolonged high
stress levels are known to lead to rapid ageing, weight gain, risk
of osteoporosis, high blood pressure, heart disease, cancer and
digestive problems. Surely this is reason enough to work at a different
pace.
• We learn to live as human beings and not as ‘human
doings’. No more juggling. We engage in human face time and
look at the people we are talking to. We will walk to the next cubicle
to talk to our colleague instead of sending an e-message or using
the Chatbox.
As HR folks, picking up the good old telephone to talk to our employees
or meeting them face to face beats email – puts ‘human’
back into HR.
We
can live more and simpler by learning to master technology and determining
how to leverage on technology to release more time for being human.
Bless those who have chosen to be blissfully technology-intolerant
for they know there is life beyond information and technology. The
advancement of IT has transformed us into gadget-like people –
ever available and accessible.
We have accepted that being absent present is good enough. Let us
pledge to be fully present to what matters most – our people!
Live more ... and simpler.
Visit
Sulynn's homepage
at HR Matters for full access to her other column pieces.
Read
Humanising
Organisational Change, Sulynn's previous article, in the October
2011 issue.
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Issue 17 | January 2012
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Sulynn
Choong
is a Positive Change Consultant/Coach with Human Capital
Perspectives and the Founder/Chief Engagement Officer
at the Asian Centre for Applied Positive Psychology
(ACAPP).
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