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PEOPLE
Courage
Leadership.
Step up to your next level
by
Sandra Ford Walston
published August 2007
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Sandra
Ford Walston
Photo
courtesy of : Sandra Ford Walston
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Opportunities
for courage leadership at work occur nearly every day. From speaking
up during a company meeting to overcoming an obstacle that hinders
professional advancement, these instances are often the defining
moments of a person’s career.
Unfortunately, most people do not claim courage as one of the
primary virtues they display at work. They mistakenly believe
that courage is only relevant during particularly perilous times.
As a result, they don’t perceive exploring new ideas, confronting
gossip, transitioning to a new career, transcending rejection,
or taking initiative as courageous leadership moments.
In reality, each person has the capacity to be a courageous
leader regardless of his or her company position. Whether you’re
a graphic designer, a sales executive, or the CEO, how you confront
workday issues and contribute to your own professional advancement
speaks volumes about your courage quotient and sets a leadership
example others can follow.
The Heart and Spirit of Courageous Centering™
The original definition of the word courage comes from
the French word corage, meaning “heart and spirit.”
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HR
Matters Magazine
Issue 1 | August 2007 |
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Sandra
Ford Walston, The Courage Expert, innovator of STUCKThinking™,
is an organizational effectiveness/ learning consultant, speaker,
corporate trainer and courage coach, specialising in understanding
women’s leadership issues, courage behaviors, individual
personalities and leadership styles that focus on the tricks
and traps of the human condition.
Sandra
is the internationally published author of bestseller “COURAGE:
The Heart and Spirit of Every Woman.” Her second book
is currently agent represented. Sandra writes for “Chief
Learning Officer” and “Strategic
Finance” magazines, and she posts a monthly Courage
Blog
on her own her own site and for PINK
magazine and successtelevision.com.
Sandra provides skill-based programs for public and private
businesses, including Caterpillar, Inc., Auburn University,
Procter & Gamble, Wyoming Department of Health Public
Nurses, Farmers Insurance, Wide Open West and Hitachi Consulting.
She is a Newfield Network Coach.
Ms.
Walston is qualified to administer and interpret the Myers-Briggs
Type Indicator® and is certified as an Enneagram
teacher and she enjoys applying insights from both systems
to her work. With over eleven years of experience with finance
professionals, she instructs for the University of Denver
Graduate Tax Program Continuing Professional Education courses
and she formerly taught for the Colorado Society of CPAs.
Her
Home Page is www.sandrawalston.com
or sign up for her courage blog.
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The
original definition of the word courage comes from the French
word corage, meaning “heart and spirit.” Historically,
great leaders have always acted from their hearts, but notions
of courage as heroic have diminished this heartfelt value of courage.
Without courage, however, a key part of our spirit is lost. Perhaps
that’s why Aristotle believed that courage is the first
of human virtues because it makes all the other virtues possible.
When you come from your heart and spirit and allow your passion
for what you do to guide you, you are displaying your true authenticity.
Many people prefer to settle for conformity or complacency rather
than display courage at work.
"
People with courage state their goals and then go backwards
from there to look for what's possible."
~ Sandra Ford Walston |
They believe that advancing professionally is not worth the sacrifice
or time to accomplish it. They don’t want to give up their
annual vacation, attend evening school to obtain a degree or certification,
give up their golf game for a few years, or commit to their calling.
Such people are not acting courageously.
Courage centering is a discipline. They develop new models when
the door to an old model closes. These people move forward and
upward, never quit, and take risks to reinvent themselves. Setting
challenging goals and taking calculated risks reveal their heart
and spirit. Because of their desire to continually learn and improve
their performance, they build an innate reservoir of courage that
leads them down the path to success.
Step Up with Courage
Advancing professionally and building your courage reservoir
is similar to climbing a standard six-foot ladder. The first step
is low and wide, with each consecutive step getting higher and
narrower. Near the top of the ladder the ascent can get a little
shaky as the steps taper. At work, a project that requires you
to learn a new software may perpetuate anxiety or feelings of
ineptness. Conquering an obstacle or revealing vulnerability are
behaviors of courage. They support you to face the challenge head
on. What would happen if you said, “It takes a lot of courage
for me to admit that I made the wrong choice on the new software
we purchased and installed this past year?”.
People who continually “step up” do not easily give
up on their opinions and judgments, even when challenged. Their
willingness to be ostracized after a meeting for expressing an
idea requires self-efficacy—the capacity for producing a
desired result or effect. This behavior is very different from
being close-minded and narrow. In other words, they believe in
themselves and their skills. Even more important, they do not
blame others for their shortcomings or failures. They hold themselves
100% accountable and recognize the value of courageous will. They
have control over the patterns that govern their beliefs and know
their zone of courageous energy. As you continue to climb each
step of the ladder, your motivation to improve standards of excellence,
to commit to the organization’s standards and goals, and
to seize opportunities that allow you to take setbacks and obstacles
in stride intensifies. Unfortunately, 20% of people never make
it past the first rung. They don’t identify goals and quit
before they start."
"Unfortunately,
20% of people never make it past the first rung. They don’t
identify goals and quit before they start. "
~ Sandra Ford Walston |
The other 80% of people set goals for professional advancement.
As the challenges increase, the group takes a break to regroup
and refuel. 65% of the people decide they are content to stay
where they are, so they settle in. Only the remaining 15% reset
their goals, commit to their original vision and purpose, and
continue the climb. When they reach a difficult moment, they ask
themselves, “Do I really want this?” Then, after reevaluating
their path, they decide whether the sacrifice is worth the goal.
If they need to make adjustments to their plan, they do. They
constantly refocus and continue their climb out of conscious choice.
For such courageous leaders, settling is not an option. They reach
the top rung of the ladder. They seem to understand this ancient
Chinese proverb:
“He who hesitates before each step spends his life on one
leg.”
What rung of the ladder will satisfy you?
Tips for Applying Courage at Work
Courageous leaders recognize defining moments and apply
courage at work. This conscious action is vital to their success.
By developing the following behaviors in yourself, you’ll
be better able to call upon your courage when needed.
1. Constantly affirm your strength and determination
Realize that no one expects you to be perfect. They do, however,
expect you to do your best. Take time for daily reflection so
you can evaluate your resources and how you can best use them.
When you know how your strengths can benefit your organization,
you’ll be able to do what you believe is right and see any
challenge as an opportunity for professional growth.
2. Hurdle obstacles and take risks
Every behavior you exhibit and every action you take is
a conscious choice. Give yourself permission to choose to be different
so you can creatively navigate your way around, through, or over
any obstacles that cross your path. When you feel fear set in,
ask yourself, “What’s the worst thing that can happen
if I do this?” Usually the worst never occurs, so take the
risk.
3. Manifest vision
There are no shortcuts when it comes to courageous leadership.
Know where you want to go and develop a crystal clear vision of
your goal. Become stubborn about attaining your vision so you
can discard any non-productive judgments others put on you.
4. Reflect self-esteem
All your actions reflect who you are and what you stand
for. If you’re repeating a certain behavior that you don’t
like, look inside and ask, “What do I need to change?”
Sharpen your skills and abilities through education, reading and
training, and surround yourself with the kind of people you want
to become.
5. Speak up
If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, believe your intuition
and tell those involved why you believe the situation is not right.
Exercise your courageous voice by challenging the status quo and
making waves when someone is putting you down or when water-cooler
gossip is getting out of hand.
Claim Your Courage Today
If courage has eluded you in the past, now is the time
to step up and make your daily job performance a profile in courage—the
one that reveals your heart and spirit. Confront issues
even when your own job is at stake.
Be vulnerable to admit a mistake. Reinvent yourself to transcend
an old career and begin a new one. And most important, manifest
a vision and follow it.
When you follow a decisive course of action and do what it takes
to advance professionally, you become a catalyst for profound
change and an initiator who can lead others to the same path.
With such courageous leadership capabilities, professional success
is imminent. 
If you want to enhance your courage quotient,
practice the following exercise.
You’ll soon be able to “step up”
and tap into your courage reservoir.
1. Recall a specific moment in your work life when you were proud
of yourself. Maybe you finally confronted the supervisor who always
berated you in front of others. Perhaps you committed to learning
a new skill that benefited your career. Whatever the event, relive
that experience and determine the specific behavior you employed
that made the difference. This was your courage at work!
2. Think of a recent time when courage and its energy (virtue
in Latin means “energy”) were not called upon—when
the portal to your heart was asleep. This was a missed opportunity
that can never be reclaimed. You don’t want this to happen
again. What possible outcomes may have been different if you had
drawn from your existing reservoir of courage?
3. State your intent to claim your courage in 2007. Write it down
and post it prominently!
4. As your footprints of courage are being formed throughout 2007,
notice how your actions reveal your authenticity. Then keep asking:
Are you applying the behaviors of courage?
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