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COMMUNICATION
Giving
Feedback
Giving feedback across generations is simply
good leadership
by
Avril Henry
published 30 May 2008
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Avril
Henry
Photo
courtesy of : Avril Henry
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Peter
Drucker in a book titled The Leader of the Future (1996)
observed that “there may be born leaders, but there surely
are too few to depend on them. Leadership must be learned and
can be learned.” My personal belief after working in Human
Resources for 14 years is that leadership is a set of learnable
behaviours, which can be adopted and modelled by observing leaders
who exhibit ethical behaviours and strong values – qualities
that “followers” admire and respect.
Unfortunately for decades in many Asian and Australian organisations,
we have not invested in developing management and leadership capability,
believing that these are “soft skills” and therefore
not as important as technical skills and work experience. “Soft
skills” have long been seen as an unnecessary overhead.
Often organisations cut their training and development budgets
during the annual budgeting cycle , when further cost reductions
are needed. Ironically strong leadership is the number one motivator
for the two youngest generations in the workforce, namely Generation
X (born 1965 – 1979) and Generation Y (born 1980 - 1995),
who comprise approximately 50% of workplaces around the world.
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Avril Henry is a professional speaker,
author, facilitator and coach and is the Executive
Director of Avril Henry Pty ltd., a leadership and
human capital consulting business.
Avril
has recently been contracted by the University of
Western Sydney to develop a 3-year leadership program
for their gifted scholarship students, to be delivered
in addition to their academic studies to better prepare
them for leadership positions in the future.
During 2006, Avril completed a Ministerial Review
for the Minister of Defence, into Recruitment and
Retention in the Army, Air Force and Navy. The recommendations
of “The Henry Report” were accepted by
the government in December 2006. Following the review,
Avril was appointed as a Strategic Advisor to the
Chief of Navy, and has joined the Navy's Workforce
Planning Committee, being the only female and civilian
on the committee.
In 2006, Avril won the prestigious Lifetime Achievement
in HR Award at the Australian Human Resources Awards.
In 2005, she was a finalist in the Sydney Business
Review Business Woman of the Year. In 2008, she was
recognised by the NSW government, as part of International
Women’s Day, as one of the 100 women nominated
for the NSW Woman of the Year 2008.
In
2007 Avril joined the board of Hands Across the Water
Australia, a charity which raises money to build and
operate self sustainable orphanages in Thailand for
Thai children who lost their parents in the 2004 Boxing
Day Tsunami.
Avril
is the author of “Leadership Revelations: An
Australian Perspective”, “The Who What
When and Y of Generation Why?”, and is a co-author
of the book “Ideas, Original Perspectives from
Leading Thinkers”. She is featured in the book
“Secrets Exposed of Inspiring Leaders”,
as one of Australia’s most inspiring female
leaders. Her latest book released in 2007, entitled
“Inspiring Tomorrow’s Leaders Today: Breaking
Down Generational Barriers At Work” is the first
in a four part series to be released over the next
few years.
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Their principal loyalty is not to the organisation, rather to their
careers and a good manager. The absence of strong leadership and
a good manager is the number one reason many leave organisations.
When challenged on what good leadership means, Generation X say
“Leaders who do what they say they will do”; with Generation
Y who are impatient by nature, extending this to include “
… when they say they will do it!”
In
a research report on Generation Y (which covered participants from
more than 50 different cultural backgrounds), titled “the
Who What When and Y of Generation whY”, over 75% of the Generation
Y survey participants identified the most important characteristics
of effective leadership, in order of importance to them, as:
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An ability to inspire and motivate people
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Being a good listener
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Creating a positive work environment
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Leading by example
The
other leadership characteristics which they rated highly are:
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Valuing teamwork
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An ability to manage change
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Good values
- Demonstrate
self leadership
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An appetite for learning and developing others
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Giving regular, constructive feedback and mentoring
Based
on the fact that many Generation Y employees have not been in the
workplace that long, and that they have different expectations of
the workplace and their managers, the participants were asked to
think about the best team leader or manager they had worked for,
and what it was that made them such a good manager. Overwhelmingly,
the majority of the participants said that what made them the best
team leader or manager was his/her ability to listen to staff. This
was closely followed by managers who treat all people with respect
and as equals, and do not regard themselves as “superior”
to the people who they were responsible for managing.
Included
in the top five characteristics for a good manager, together with
the two identified above, were managers who give regular, constructive
feedback; explained things, answered questions and coached staff;
and were encouraging and supportive. These young workers identified
a total of 14 characteristics of a good manager from their perspective.
Ironically many of these characteristics are not seen as important
as technical expertise, experience and tertiary qualifications by
the two older generations who make up the majority of the senior
management positions in the public and private sector, in many developed
countries around the world.
This
strong desire by employees for good leadership is further supported
by the Best Employers surveys conducted by Hewitt Associates in
Europe, the USA, Australia and Asian countries over the last 7 years,
which has identified the number one factor (setting such organisations
apart from all others), as strong leadership and a commitment to
the people inside the organisation.
Currently
the majority of board positions, senior and executive positions
in many countries are occupied by Veterans (born prior to 1946)
and Baby Boomers (born 1946 – 1964), who have a different
understanding of the key motivators of the two younger generations.
In
broad terms, many leaders fail in the following key areas:
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Managing poor performance in the workplace
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Giving regular, constructive feedback
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Are poor listeners
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Exhibit command and control leadership styles.
Many
older, traditional managers and leaders do not like giving feedback,
but are even more uncomfortable receiving feedback on their own
performance from their subordinates. They do not like giving feedback
on poor performance because it “upsets people”. Studies
on management styles have found in certain cultures leaders have
an “avoidance leadership” style. This is characterised
by fear of engagement, withdrawal from taking responsibility and
a preference to defer decision making. At the other end of the feedback
scale, we find leaders promoting the “tall poppy syndrome”;
that is “we can’t tell people when they are doing a
good job, otherwise they might get overly confident ’’.
So employees are left with no feedback at all! This is unacceptable
to Generations X and Y, who not only expect feedback, but will demand
it. They want to know when they are doing well so they can continue
to do it. They also want to know when they are not doing well, what
they need to do to improve and what their leader or manager is willing
to do to help them improve. Together with leadership and challenging
work, regular, constructive feedback is one of the top three motivators
for both Generations X and Y at work.
The
Hewitt Associates Best Employers surveys found that leaders in those
organisations are strong communicators who are good listeners, and
are open and honest in their communication style. One of the most
valuable leadership lessons I learnt was from my maternal grandmother
who told me when I became school captain that it was important to
listen, and that it was a skill I would need to learn to be effective
in my first leadership role. She said: “God gave us two ears
and one mouth because He expected us to listen more than He expected
us to speak!” - a simple but powerful lesson. One can learn
a lot more about our people and our workplaces by listening more
and talking less, by observing in silence and listening with our
ears, eyes and hearts. One of the qualities of highly effective
leaders is that they don’t believe that they have all the
answers themselves. They recognise that the answers to many workplace
issues may be found within the organisation and often at levels
below management. They ask questions of employees at all levels,
and then willingly listen to their contributions. This earns respect
for the leader, but simultaneously demonstrates respect by the leader
for the employees. In order to engage the employees, the leader
must help them understand “why” they must follow, rather
than assume they will follow. Leaders need to be more open to challenges
and questions from employees across the organisation and at all
levels.
In
order to move towards a more collaborative and inclusive leadership
style, leaders need to focus on:
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Learning how to give and receive constructive feedback about both
good and poor performance
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Building learning cultures within the organisation, enabling the
development of the management and leadership skills of all employees
responsible for leading and managing others
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Creating positive work environments, where employees are encouraged
to be the best they can be
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Adopting more inclusive approaches to problem solving by seeking
input from employees, where possible
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Moving from command and control leadership to more collaborative,
inclusive leadership.
In the late
1990s two forward thinking men, David Clancy and Robert Webber,
wrote a book titled “Roses and Rust” which was about
redefining the essence of leadership in a new age, challenging “traditional”
assumptions about organisations, management and about “our
most valued resource” in business, people. What resonated
most with me was their description of people who would challenge
the status quo in organisations, who they referred to as “Pioneers
of Hope”. These people work tirelessly to re-establish hope
and create positive work environments to ensure work has meaning
for people, and so that we can create a bright working future for
generations to come. They are determined to walk the path of the
“unsayables” and hold up mirrors within their organisations
or those of their clients, so that organisations can grow and move
forward ethically. It is people such as these that truly inspire
others to be the best they can be, and show others the way things
could be in the future rather than just how they are at present.
This is what Generations X and Y are looking for in their leaders,
people who are ethical, honest, trustworthy and courageous, who
want to create a better work environment for the present and the
future.
In order for
a leader to be truly credible, he or she needs to lead by example
exhibiting appropriate behaviours in their own lives. In the words
of Father Chris Riley, CEO of Youth Off The Streets ( a charity
committed to improving the lives of young people living on the streets):
“Leading
by example is how leaders make vision and values tangible. It is
how they provide evidence that they’re personally committed.
And that evidence is what people look for and admire in leaders
– people whose direction they willingly follow.”
Acknowledgements
Clancy
D and Webber R (1997), Roses and Rust, Business and Professional
Publishing, Warriewood NSW Australia
Drucker Foundation (The) (1996), The Leader of the Future, Jossey
Bass Publishers, San Francisco, USA
Henry A (2005), Leadership Revelations An Australian Perspective,
CCH, Sydney, Australia
Henry A (2006), The Who, What, When and Y of Generation whY?, AH
Revelations, Sydney, Australia
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